I had a great experience today. I want to tell you about it, but am a little hesitant because I don't want to destroy the sacredness of it for the other people that were involved. But it was a big eye opener to me so I guess I will share a bit.
Today I went to a funeral. A cousin of mine whom I have never met before passed away this week. Robin and Uncle George were planning on going and so invited me to come. I went because I thought the experience would be really amazing.. and it was. So after I was finally dressed properly (which is a whole other story) we set of. I was a little nervous having never attended a maori funeral before and wasn't sure what to expect. Afterwards though I realized that there really was nothing to be nervous of. Some things that stuck out for me...?
The location. The funeral was actually held in front of the home which was way out in the country. There were benches and chairs set out and those who didn't have a seat sat in the shade under the trees. All around us was beautiful green farmland and hills. I liked how you could hear the sheep baaa-ing occasionally.
Music. Maoris love their music. And many have a natural affinity for it.
Love. So many people turned up. Family, members of the community, and old friends. There was a lot of love and support. People linking arms and physically, as well as emotionally, supporting each other. When someone would stand up to speak, often their husband, wife, brother, sister, etc., was standing there with them. With their arms around each other,and hands clasped together they would be strong enough to face it.
Family. Did you know I have an enormous family? I met cousins today that I have never heard of before. I am grateful for the opportunity now to meet them all. I think we are going to be great friends. Also, the physical resemblance between Grammy and her sisters, I was not expecting that, it blew me away!
I am glad I was able to go today. It may sound weird, saying that about a funeral, but it is the truth. Today I learned much, I grew, I experienced, and I felt. It was a good day. I am thankful for the family, my family actually, for allowing me to share today with them.

One more thought: Can you imagine what it would be like to bury your loved one without knowing about life after death? I can't. One more reason I am so grateful for the gospel.